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Saturday 23 August 2014

Dr. Karin Huffer on Legal Abuse Syndrome

Legal Abuse Syndrome explained

The Chemistry Between Us by Larry Young, Brain Matters! Vancouver March ...

Loyalty NOT Ignorance - Conservatives

Political Conservatives’ Affinity for Obedience to Authority Is Loyal, Not Blind

  1. Jeremy A. Frimer1
  2. Danielle Gaucher1
  3. Nicola K. Schaefer1
  1. 1University of Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada
  1. Jeremy A. Frimer, Department of Psychology, University of Winnipeg, 515 Portage Avenue, Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada R3B 0R4. Email: j.frimer@uwinnipeg.ca

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10 Ways to Prevent Alzheimer’s Disease

 

 

Everyday Sadists

Dealing With Everyday Sadists and Other "Dark Personalities"

5 important tips for protecting yourself from those who would do you harm
There are several personality types that are more likely to harm another than the average person would. Sadists possess an intrinsic motivation to inflict suffering on innocent others, even when this comes at a personal cost. This is because for sadistic personalities, cruelty is pleasurable, generally exciting, and can be sexually stimulating.

Джамала: «Smile»

Smile song from Eastern Europe

Why we LOVE and ADORE Henry Rollins

Henry Rollins looking very ordinary
Rollins recently slated Robin Williams for the suicide. We agree. We lost the best talent we have ever had in the history of entertainment. Robin inspired countless people in a variety of dangerous and strange situations as well as every good soldier and service person in the west. Robin should NOT have taken the drugs. Robin SHOULD have been looking for peer support, advice from Rudyard Kipling and looking to lessen impact of possible harms caused to people. He may have been afraid of hurting people. He hated to hurt people. This is the same with Rollins who is feeling like shit, made an apology to all and is probably feeling depressed and guilty now. WHY? He has saved more lives than he has hurt the feelings of a few who need to learn to understand the hearts of the greats. Rollins is my new hero and I will be hanging on to his every word. The best bit? ''as you have children, you waive your right to take your own life'' Absolutely sweetheart. Here for you. For all nice guys doing the best they can, we love you.

Friday 22 August 2014

Feminists are hated, because we CAN f*ck! UKIP? But VOTE YES for Scotland!

F*cking is fab. Or can be.  However, if you've been raped and stalked a lot or violated and exploited a lot, it's not always an appealing idea though and also you will be judged for enjoying it (even if it's thin on the ground now and then, picky people often do without)  Allowing yourself to nurture the denial of adult healthy sex though, is thieving from your life.

 An ugly man with a temper, a Millons B, sold our heritage, which affects British identity and our tourism industry (that is partially responsible for funding our welfare state, which currently supports 52% of the UK population (source, Government) in tax credits and work related benefits, as well as disabled and unemployed.

So, who could REALLY benefit from flogging the Queen? Scotland?

Let's look at the evidence bearing in mind that not all Scots despise the British

Which Scots have been Messing things up for the British for a long time?

Blair - check.
Brown - check.
Rifkind - check -ish
David Cameron - ish

What can we do about this?

I hope UKIP will have some answers in the new manifesto coming next month, it is going to be fun and hopefully will gives us all a lot to think about.

Meanwhile, the Kama Sutra is only good when you have high EQ. IQ alone only feeds the superficial values that harm so many people.The Paparazzi guy I had a flingette with, Jon someone, looked like Anthony Newley) was all technique, and no EQ. Couldn't wait to be shot of his white designer knickers.

 Keeping things small and local is by far the best thing for the global community. When people want to own huge things and worlds, they have unmet needs, were probably left to cry for too long by parents 'doing it by the wrong book' as they learn that whining forever eventually gets them 'fed'. All that need is eventually 'worth it'. It doesn't cause good people. It causes HUGENESS and 'good psychopathy' that belongs in the army!

Love and feeding on demand is the only way to show a baby that you are a caring and good parent and that people can be trusted and loved. This is the foundation of empathy, empathy pays is learned in babyhood.

To develop empathy must be a goal for our world today and learning the difference between empathy and sympathy is very valuable, as is being able to spot the NPD. See Sam Vaknin videos and books.



'Righteous' people of all religions (not to mention jealous people - as they are very nasty 'Millon' who take delight in pretending to be nice whilst actually stabbing one deeply in the spine!) draw the line at 'otherwise good' people who happen to enjoy HEALTHY adult sex. This is because those clean and pure ones that would never throw stones in glass houses -  have only had bad or too limited experience of sex themselves (which should be included as a symptom of  'Legal Abuse Syndrome' news of which is coming soon!)

 Injustice keeps this a focal point of activism across the board. Sex crimes will always need addressing as our body is all we can ever truly own and is our foundation for our very identity. It is yours alone that nobody has a right to invade in any way ever, without strict invitation only.

Laws should be protecting all of us in this regard. Keeping focus on what is crime and what is not crime can only help bring balanced and proper justice.

 Adult consensual sex is fine and completely natural and normal but  sex involving vulnerable beings is an act of psychopaths.

This is why it's very important for all of us, to brush up our skills on identifying the proper culprits.

They lead double lives and lie so well, that it is shocking to the core when you hear them lie to others, especially in courts of law. It's shocking that these psychopaths have been among us for so long. Tony Blair seems to be one. Apparently (according to a few reliable sources) he was involved in a sex crime and it was covered up. I suppose it was youthful shenanigans, but would we have voted him in had we known?

 I expect most legals are aware of it. It's probably what is messing up some of the transparency issues we have. Along with the flawed NLP (courtesy Alistair Campbell, the other odious one) that was brought here to the UK thanks to the delightful Bandler (check out the story at Mother Jones) NLP can be useful but generally it is very dangerous as it reinforced the SICK ego, making people feel good, even if they're very nasty and without the correct skills they require.

The best thing people can do to help themselves, when suffering LAS, is see a trained CBT/Behavioural therapist and take a course. These days there are some great University courses to enjoy from MIT, to Stanford, OU, Alison etc. Give it a go, baby steps! 

Equality is great for everyone to a degree but when we have to watch our language a bit too closely it becomes a huge danger to our constitutional freedoms, local identity and our laws.

Gordon Brown snuck off to Europe and actually sold our sovereignty to the EU a few years ago. It verily freaked me out.

 Daniel Hannan was very gallant when addressing it. There is a priceless video of Mr.Hannan 
 [Gordon Brown] 'He is a devalued Prime Ministers of a devalued government''  claimed with much clever and authentic alacrity. You can judge the goodness of a man by the insults he gives, I love Dan Hannan because he loves our country, and he is also more than aware that soldiers have given their lives over and over and over again, in order for us to be able to speak out truths, lest we forget.

Wonder why David Cameron wasn't backing dear Mr. Hannan then? Hannan is a Peruvian Irish English gent who clearly values our English and British culture over almost anything else?! This is the type of person we want running our country! Someone who will make sacrifices to protect her, to prevent her from ham, ham is not the issue, I meant harm. No harm from ham is allowed.

This is our primary issue. I've seen the 'British Groups' trying to address it, but inviting over-ambitious Austrian youths with flags, has always been a mistake, let's bear that in mind.  

Hannan has also  been seen telling his VERY own voters, to vote UKIP. 

All will be revealed.
Batman Slaps Robin with 'fuck off' caption

Meantime, keep calm and love your country and her poetry, in the manner she was uniquely meant, to be loved.

Elizabeth Lucye Robillard

Thursday 21 August 2014

Professional Chat Room



Boy smiling on telephone, Jamie Jones


Online Chat Room Support - Manned by Mental health professionals and service users


Daniel Goleman Explains Emotional Intelligence

Daniel Goleman Video

What does Psychopath mean? Antisocial Personality Disorder - Mental Heal...

Psychopath meanings and intent

Do gut bacteria control your mind?



broken window viewing a countrside scence


Do gut bacteria control your mind?

Bullying and the Middle East + Resources (draft fio)

UNDER CONSTRUCTION - COME BACK OFTEN


Goat clining to the back of a guy on a motorobike
 Pic from chief blog

Increased social workers, increased mentoring, social skills and curriculum changes proved to reduce bullying in NY (RC Vreeman, AE Carroll - Archives of Pediatrics & …, 2007)

 More recent positive psychology events are looking hopeful, as long as support is properly and globally orbited (program term) and reinforced with bigger baby-steps!

Recent new models of schools reform include 'social learning' discussed here

Improvement and diversification of engineering skills, math and physics knowledge, generally helps increase the logical parts of brain function, replacing pleasurable reaction for apt activity, increasing logic by breaking things down into steps using backward chaining (that even chimps have been proved to do be able to handle - see also left-brain-right-brain why it still counts) incorporating creative writing and literature appreciation (blogging apps could help) discussions on variations of themes, possibilities of expansion and diversification (see 'Islam is based on Responsa literature') watching out for the malevolent psychopath

Some problems with Internet being free to all, is it will be exploited, sooner or later, by psychopaths (the ID is being honed but see countrywide freedoms that should be promoted in peaceful areas whilst increasing personal identity in those with low EQ, and free access to country wide ISPS, ensuring provision will comply with global justice and communication, the tenet being, no borders for access to Internet use, not free global Internet access. baby steps.

Babies are sometimes regarded as not treated very well. Empowering adults with EQ skills can only help.

Encouraging cultural pursuits to diversify by way of fragmenting cultural norms whilst maintaining routines, would benefit local areas and provide support to identity and diversify local customs and pursuits. New ideas will be tolerated better the smaller the community and the more localised, with an introduction of stricter and more detailed local by laws, travel arrangements, libraries, home-gardening kits (indoor gardening with LED lights),  and entertainment, as far as culture will allow. Allowed entertainment really ought to be maximised to include items that would require the expansion of local legislation and thus reinforcing local law enforcement practitioners and offering THEM rewards as and when could help solve a lot of problem,s It would be wise to identify and assist such talent wherever possible, l. Identifying jealousy and applying values to EQ will help  and The acceptable thing are Jekyll and Hyde nature hides behind perfection, false sense, Lots of narcissists excuse their cruelty/emotional abuse. Also see how to help nervous animals.

Generally you need to break down jealousies, and overuse of antioxidants as they can inflame the body causing sugar highs that are broken down with physical activity. Deescalate anger by providing steps to reduce attacks and maximise the benefits of ACT therapy. By sympathising and medicalising the trauma properly, you reinforce the understanding of the benefits of peace and tranquillity.

Understanding the arguments in Islam can help provide solutions  across the board. Challenging anger, excitement and attitude rather than content, is useful.  The authentic Muslim isn't an angry or an enabler unless he/she has unmet needs or resentment. Values placed on law enforcement can't be underestimated, but always watch and be vigilant for local habits and enhancements in order to assist in any way that could prove a means to peaceful processes.

Encourage, diversify, empower and promote existing identity and values through reading and writing.

 A global study and view was given by psychologists fairly  recently that identity reinforcement wasn't proving a success. Without the benefit of demographic appreciation incorporated into behavioural models, that would be the case.

Therefore we recommend early intervention, using locally sourced professionals to form home and school workshops where bullying is at it's worst. *ASPD are 'inherently' jealous, organised, prone to dark arts, expert liars, appear normal, like to preach, are prone to very clever mimicry and stalking and they generally don't catch social yawning!


Elizabeth Lucy aka Elizabeth Lucye Robillard

See Lucy V Royal Borough of Kensington and Chelsea [1997] EWHC Admin 23 (16th January, 1997)

(winner of SENDIST tribunal making legal history for having overturned the first tribunal, ordering a second and winning that via High Court as well as, first time ever, obtaining funding for a non-practising barrister (P.Bibby) It made legal history and is used for creating funds for private special needs education and legal provisions for ASD children, based on Lovaas '87 study)


How To Control Emotions #1


cartoon bug killer guy with huge eyes


Mark Tyrell writes

Once there lived an old man who kept all different kinds of animals.
But his grandson was particularly intrigued by two tigers that lived together in one cage.
The tigers had different temperaments; one was calm and self-controlled whilst the other was unpredictable, aggressive, violent, and vicious.
"Do they ever fight, Grandfather?" asked the young boy.
"Occasionally, yes they do," admitted the old man.
"And which one wins?"
"Well, that depends on which one I feed the most." Read more

Millons Cluster B Feline

Personality disorder cat, Millons

Emergency Depression Therapy


Cano Castales, Cristal Lakes, circular prinary colours, nasty




Have you learned to read music yet? Have you conducted? Have you explored Croatia and her national parks? Do you really know the Caño Cristales River? Have you lived during Spring, in Provence? Have you a gallery? A website? A portfolio of your work? Where can we read your poetry? If none of this advice appeals, have you added the correct Microflora?

Have you spent the day in a Bluebell wood and made your own wine recently?

Do you have pet?  Can you plan to have a pet?  NO? >

If you seriously can't pull yourself out of a stew or a pickle, eat some or call (24/7 ANYTIME)


1-800-273-TALK (8255)     USA

 08457 90 90 90                   UK Samaritans

EMAIL Jo@samaritans.org


 For a range of European Helplines see Crisis Centres Europen


 And then there's

Therapy Pets

By Kerry Hudson
We are all familiar with guide dogs, the way they help their owner overcome physical disability is breathtaking, but did you know there is now an acknowledged need for therapy dogs? A therapy dog’s role is to help reduce anxieties and build confidence whilst providing companionship for an owner who is experiencing mental illness or distress. Read More


Non Millons Infant Empathy Display

Empathy from a baby

Millon Free Infant

Millon free infant

Recommended Reading

Psychiatric diagnoses are not mental processes: Wittgenstein on conceptual confusion.

Abstract

BACKGROUND:

Empirical explanation and treatment repeatedly fail for psychiatric diagnoses. Diagnosis is mired in conceptual confusion that is illuminated by Ludwig Wittgenstein's later critique of philosophy (Philosophical Investigations). This paper examines conceptual confusions in the foundation of psychiatric diagnosis from some of Wittgenstein's important critical viewpoints. READ MORE

Personality Test 2

Personality test

Common Sense Test

common sense test

Why Do We have Wars, War, Gays, Abuse and Trauma - One Word - Millon

Calling All Control Freaks!


I was on the radio talking to LBC's Nick Ferrari yesterday, he asked me what agoraphobia is in a word - I said 'trauma' - I should have said 'Millons' but nobody would've understood that.

There are those who have Millon and those who do not. Millons have been the cause of wars since daddies and mummies were missed too much. Emotionally distanced parents, or overly critical family members cause life time illness. They don't understand why, as they don't have the same perceptions of sensitivities, so they resort to criticism, that often kills vulnerable youngsters. Suicide doesn't have to happen.

Gayness is one example of Millon parenting, it also causes a deep shame that often cannot be fixed without a brand new life. Millons victims, gay or straight, are longing for a parent and identity incarnate. A god figure, or a mirror image that creates them as 'a god/goddess'. Anything less, leaves (wrongly or rightly!) an 'unattractive/ugly Millons in a state of Anhedonial withdrawal. This is why it's important to get your balance right and address the issues about the unique YOU in order for you to be able to share all you want to with this beautiful wonderful world, her unique and gorgeous inhabitants and to live the life you were meant to. When Millons is accompanied with SPD - you have a war. When it's a schizotypal subtype, you have wars or solutions to them. The quick way around it all - is address the shaming suffered from the child abuse cause. This is why Social Workers need to take children (still no excuse for secret courts)  It can also be a symptom of traumatic experience.

SOLUTION!

Heal shaming and trauma exposure with adaptive and creative skills focused on building self-awareness with positive shaping rather than deconstruction. Keep people motivated to continue with token economy, art and history skills to assist in positive identity formation. Use telephone and email support, utilise online chat and apps. Help monitor chat rooms where bullying is still rife. Challenge a Millon on his/her attitude rather than condemning, if you do, you find a respectful friend willing to take a look at what you have to say.

Keep Calm Psychiatry - Millon

Tuesday 19 August 2014

Love and Animals - How an NPD treats pets and 'underlings'


NPD's family toon, joke, irony ' they squash pets, not love them



Love isn't suppressing or suffocating. Affection isn't real (rather hormonal pleasure-reaction addiction) if it's objectified and not respected.

Due to NPD's not having the ability to demonstrate a natural and obvious proclivity for empathy and respect for the individual (as well as actively promoting his/her liberty and/personal growth) sometimes accompanied with the deep need to sustain the 'Maddona-whore' scenario (due to 'cold hard'/NPD parenting) as he/she is dependent on the 'owned object' for N.supply.

Sam Vaknin writes ''The narcissist uses his cold empathy (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y1MkZb...) to elicit narcissistic supply. He robotically imitates warm, emotional empathy in order to get his interlocutor to participate in interactions which, as far as the narcissist is concerned, constitute narcissistic supply.''

Diversity and diversification can assist in changing bad habits.

YES WE DO! How's this for genius innovation?

We truly love and adore Airbus for this - fabulous, intricate innovation and ideas

How Does Your Microflora Effect Your Performance?

Carl Zimmer writes: ''Your body is home to about 100 trillion bacteria and other microbes, collectively known as your microbiome.''

Should Mental Health Professionals Ever Lie?

To say I was in a foul mood was an understatement. I’d been escorted by
the police to the Midtown Community Mental Health Center’s Crisis
Invtervention Unit (CIU). I’d been waiting for a few hours to talk to a
therapist, which is annoying even when psychiatric symptoms haven’t
flared up. But I was in for a surprise.Should Mental Health Professionals Ever Lie?

Our Favourite Character Building Game

Tales of Maj’Eyal (ToME) is a free, open source roguelike RPG, featuring tactical turn-based combat and advanced character building.  Play as one of many unique races and classes in the lore-filled world of Eyal, exploring random dungeons, facing challenging battles, and developing characters with your own tailored mix of abilities and powers.  With a modern graphical and customisable interface, intuitive mouse control, streamlined mechanics and deep, challenging combat, Tales of Maj’Eyal offers engaging roguelike gameplay for the 21st century.

The continent of Maj’Eyal lives in a relative peace. Read more  (just think of all the world's local gods we don't know much about!)

British Psychology, Older People Benefits and Why We Need Out of the EU


Blue thumb down with EU stars

You are more than your sum of experience.The bigger pictures expand and evolve with inclusion of a healthy, constructive and critical view. Older people have the benefit of not just experience of a variety of life-changing events and situations, but they are intuitive, less needy, less need to feed ego, with more desire to achieve balance and harmony as a goal. The identity of older people, can only serve to illuminate and help evolve any given work placement involving the evolution of problem solving, mature, gratitude-focused attitude, and much less 'do now pay later' attitudes that have come about due to the multitude of flawed NLP and coaching that has served the west since the 90's. Bigging up the ego of sick kids is reinforcing the illness, not changing it.

Nurture is what's needed, encouragement and honing of natural talent, feels cosy to all, and is demonstrably helpful. This comes about, in the whole, from 'Talent- Enhancement' something I'm working on. It includes encouraging a broad understanding of personal dynamics and the benefits of local identity, that I learned a bit about in a University module 'Identity and Gender'. Respecting the global community and their mental health, must seek to acknowledge and encourage the happier tribal benefits, customs and tradition. Tourism can only benefit. Health too, with less dependence of negative services. Mental Health services generally sustain rather than evolve. This view has multiple benefits for almost every trade. Development of EQ is well under way and the balance we all seek isn't unattainable with the correct approaches. Some active British voters are still swinging between Labour, UKIP and Conservatives, not least due to their global obsession with the building of more houses, when we seek to preserve our country and all it's benefits. Knocking down our wonderful landmarks, like my wonderful Earl's Court Exhibition Centre (see below) can only do harm. Building space is prized by the greedy, NPD face of ruthless profiteers. Boris Johnson supports them. Sadly. The source of the problem is facing you, with UKIP and the rise of the right, which many are now feeling is the only way forward.

Elizabeth Lucye Robillard Sign our petition here


Sunday 17 August 2014

Psychiatry is ONLY for the Feeble, Get Your Facts Right!



Spider Smiling - species that looks like it smiles




Kybosh your genius Una momento babeh

Psychiatry is for the feeble. and I am, at present feebly traumatised and unwell, that aside - my sympathies lay with the British. N.American/US and French military (and good service folk) due to widespread European identity crisis for which I have insight. I went to school on it.  My parents were prissy cultural whores on the lash and very nice hero types (his Naval commander years are omitted?) I loved them very much and carry their spirit and intent, which makes me the ultimate do-gooder ho in overdrive. My son is not with me, he's a vulnerable young man who should be in contact with his lovely mum, so the world is officially still, titsup. Having achieved all I have, on my Tod, with only a little but welcome rapport from friends, I have to rave a little. But don't blame the entire UKIP thing on me. My joy comes from the following logix.

I love teeny things. Leaves, bark, types of rain, types of dog, types of cat, and all those itty bitty bits in between. I have not mastered Italian, I've not even shagged one yet, and a chef wants me to share a sugar-free oat biscuit. I survive! So choose LIFE everytime wot means >  serotonin and higher dopamine, it's really  affordable. Transformational hubris is in short supply tho, we don't 'do' bullshit.

We need to get down and dirty. Or do the washing up. Jumping helps depression by the way, as does cholcate, home-brew ale, probiotics and meat. Or lots of yogurt/buttermilk. But know when to take these and eat your oats with fruit. Also. Carrots are disgusting. Hide them in Orange juice, Apple, cucumber (eat the skin), mint and onions are all good. KEEP AWAY from white bread unless it's sour dough. Grind your nuts in every way possible, sprinkle over your porridge, don't do too much cinamin unless you want to kill a bug as it kills good things. Don't drink tea, coffee, or chocolate (DAO blockers) if you have unexplained squit. Honeys are always beneficial. But change is often necessary. Watch them hydrangeas. Also, to fear death is very wise. Fund it. Cheers, : ) x

Gnome Tollez

Ego, The Enemy Of Self - How to Reclaim Your True Power : Melanie Tonia Evans

Ego, The Enemy Of Self - How to Reclaim Your True Power : Melanie Tonia Evans